Why Lie?!

Okay so real quick I have to ask this question because it is killing me at this very moment!!! So bad that I could scream [okay maybe not that bad buuut it's close]

I want to know why do people lie about the most trivial things. Like I just don’t get it!! And the crazii thing is I know a few [4] people that, well basically it comes so natural to them. I honestly believe it happens so easily to the point where they don’t even realize when they’re doing it! I don’t judge any one and I am on this road to not speaking on others all the time specially because it is not my place to call anyone out on their business.

Being someone’s friend doesn’t entitle you to “tell them about them self” specially if they don’t ask your opinion. This right here is a big deal for me because I use to feel like “well I’m their friend and as a friend I am suppose to keep it strictly 100 with them” Yes! This is true, however, that doesn’t give me the right to just be rude and speak on how I feel about any of their actions. At any rate I am honest with everyone and myself and if/when asked my opinion I will give it, if something is happening and I believe I should speak up I will, but my main focus isn’t to speak on how I disagree with their actions [if ya catch my drift].

Now I just had to express these feelings because it hurts my heart for someone to be so outside of reality that they are not honest with them self and/or others. Particularly to the degree that they can’t distinguish the two. Now I’ve asked them “what’s the point in lying?!” And their response “oh I don’t know, I didn’t even realize, or I don’t know I just did” and those reasons alone well they hold no purpose. Soooo why not stop?!?!?! That is all…I just really don’t get it!!!!! Maybe it ain’t for me to understand and now at this point I’m not completely okay with just saying OKAY.

- Peace & Blessings

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